8 Girls Needed for Fun Pole Class Promo

Hey friends!

I’m producing a promo video for celebrity pole dance instructor, Nicole The Pole.

She recently came off a world tour with Snoop Dogg, is fresh from a Beyonce project, and has a whole slew of other credits. Though she can be seen popping it to Pour It Up in Rihanna’s music video, one part of Nicole The Pole's work she is most passionate about is what she does with everyday people that don’t entertain for a living. I’m honored she reached out to me to produce a promotional video to let audiences know about the experiences she offers.

Shooting a Pole Dance Class Experience Promo Video

The client, Nicole The Pole, would like a diverse group of 6 to 8 ladies that are comfortable on-camera and available to shoot in the 90036 zip code area of Los Angeles on Tuesday, July, 11th at 11am.

Looking For 8 Lovely Ladies

• Black

• White

• Asian

• Hispanic

• Other

The client would like a diverse group of 6-8 girls, from different ethnic backgrounds, with different body types and of different experience levels!

If you know how to shake sumn, cool. If you have two left feet like ya girl T.K., that’s cool too. There’s no dance experience needed. It’s okay if you’ve never taken a pole class in your life, newbies are needed!

Don’t let the production verbiage scare you… All it really is (for you), is a fun workout where you’ll get free content!

Tuesday, July 11th at 11am

11:11, make a wish! My wish is that we make it quick!

Listen, we are going to be as time-efficient as possible. After a lunch meeting with Nicole to assess what she’d like to capture, here’s a tentative run-of-show I’ve created.

Shoot Day Schedule

10:30am — crew arrives (and by “crew”, I mean me). set up.
11:00am — briefly interview Nicole
11:30am — briefly interview talent
Noon — large group exercises
12:30pm — small group exercises
1:00pm — duo or trio exercises
1:30pm — one-on-one exercises
2:00pm — briefly interview talent
2:30pm — photos
3:00pm — everyone out

This tentative schedule leaves quite a bit of budge room, as an average pole class with Nicole is less than 60 minutes. This will not be thee amazing pole sequence Nicole The Pole choreographed for Beyonce Renaissance Tour dancers. Y’all are simply going in there and having some fun, in a normal-length class, while I capture bits and pieces in between.

If ever the question were asked, “what goes on in a pole class?”, or “what’s a first-time pole dance class like?”, this promo video is being created to answer the question.

It’s going to be an easy and fun project to be a part of!

The camera will not exist, as far as you’re concerned, you’re just at your local pole dance class #aroundLA having a grand ol’ time. You’re not looking at the camera, you’re not looking at your phone, you’re engaged in class. (You don’t even have to use those acting chops, you’ll really be taking a pole class!)

Everyone won’t be in every exercise; client, Nicole, will have different girls join her on the dance floor at different points during instruction as she sees fit. …so you’ll have time to take selfies when you’re off to the side! And I’ll give you access to all footage I capture of you as well.

I took Nicole’s pole dancing class once before and it was a blast!

I was a good little blogger and blogged about it, check out the video here.

Are you coming to pole class, girlfriend?!

Please fill out this Google form if you’d like to be a part of this experience. Respond quickly, as spots are limited! And if you’re not available, but know someone that may be a great candidate, don’t hesitate to share this post!!

List of confirmed talent will be submitted to client by midnight, Monday, July 3rd.

I Learned Something Big From My Small Appearances on All-American

Who knew a millisecond flash of my face in a TV scene would be seen?! And who knew people would give a rat’s tail?!

Not me.

This past fall I added another side hustle to my hat of tricks to stay afloat in Los Angeles, background acting gigs. (Don’t tell anybody, but if my grandmother didn’t have dementia, she’d tell you how I knew from the time I could talk that I was an actress, honey! I just knew it, and couldn’t be told differently, especially seeing very clearly that I was a more celebrated performer than all the other little kids in my classes. And if I weren’t so chicken, I’d tell you how that fire still burned in college, moving me to study theatre as an additional minor, and how it still flickers now, but somewhere in adulthood it’s been greatly dampened. So, I make myself believe this is a gig like any other gig, not a peek into my heart’s truest desire.) No different from any other gig I’ve done in Los Angeles, pouring drinks or greeting guests, I didn’t think much of it.

I damn sure didn’t think people I haven’t seen or talked to in a decade would be hitting me up about it!

I worked as a background extra on All-American: Homecoming (season 2).

This past fall filming season, I spent nice, long days on the Warner Bros. Studios lot in Burbank, California collecting my lil’ 132 over 8 (that’s entertainment industry work lingo).

I don’t remember exactly how many days I worked on set for All-American: Homecoming (season 2), but I was there for a few episodes, and just my luck, in episode 6, "Free Your Mind" directed by Keesha Sharp, they happened to leave a glimpse of your girl in the final cut, and as QUICK as it was, folks happened to notice me.

I found out I’d made it on TV when people started texting me.

Anyone that has ever visited any home I’ve had knows that I’ve never owned a television in my adult life. Anyone whose home I’ve ever visited knows that I don’t have an account on any streaming service. Anyone exposed to me at a decent proximity for any considerable length of time knows I don’t watch TV, unless I’m in a social setting. (Come on now, I’m not a total weirdo.. I’ll watch, and I’ll have plenty of commentary; it’s taking it upon myself to watch in my own leisure that I don’t do.) That being said, I hadn’t ever watched All-American: Homecoming (nor it’s parent show, All-American), and had no intention of watching it, even after working on set as a background actor for it. When the first few people hit me saying they’d seen me, that changed.

I streamed All-American: Homecoming for free on the CW network website after folks expressed their excitement.

Y’all texting me?! Shoot, now I gotta see!

It’s nice CW TV network allows free streaming of their shows without having to make an account, because baby if I would’ve had to, I was out! It was interesting watching how what I watched in front of me (in-person, on set) came together in the final production.

I’m thankful for people I know that are fans of the show.

What was more interesting than the contrast between what I saw on set and what I saw on screen, was what I saw from people.. People I know, people that know me.. People’s responses to the show (to me being “on” the show) is what moved me to actually think about it. We shot it in the fall, by the time it aired in the spring, it was long-gone from my mind. I’m thankful folks made me rewind.

I made a sappy post on Instagram about being seen on All-American: Homecoming.

As a Los Angeles lifestyle blogger, with a personal blog based in Los Angeles, I need to post more and this heartfelt caption from Instagram, about people’s responses to seeing me on All-American: Homecoming deserves to be cemented elsewhere on the World Wide Web.

Here’s what I posted on Instagram after an onslaught of DMs, texts and calls from something so small:

my lil' background extra work to collect a coin here and there is so small , y'all.. so so so so so so SO small.. but y'all.. Y'ALL are big.. your reactions , your encouragement , your pride ("aye, look my girl i went to school with...", etc.) , your love... YOUR LOVE IS BIG . it's so big it makes me want to do more , reach for more , be more.. be more for you.. do more for you..

i'm just a girl figuring it out.. finding her way #aroundLA ...yet you , people i took classes or rode the school bus with , fellow members from extracurricular clubs , folks from my hometown , family and family friends , co-workers from job after job , a range of acquaintances i've met along the way , & even random strangers in passing both online and off.. you.. you're big.. what you see in me is big

(**this post is not about my [almost non-existent] moves.. this post is about you**)

Plus, I was looking thru my aroundLAwithTK album of my phone’s camera roll for a picture to use for another blog post over in the cycling section, and I came across this set-day selfie (the one that’s the blog’s cover image), so why not?! This annoying iPhone keeps telling me I’m out of space. If I get all this darn blog content out of my camera roll and onto thee actual blog, I’d be able to clear up some space!

Okay, enough about that… I would write y’all an entire post about being on set of All-American: Homecoming, and it’s parent show All-American, as a background actor, but there’s not much say. Then again, who am I kidding?! I can write a blog post about the color of grass and yap for hours. Yeah, I’ll do that… not the color of grass post, y’all, the working on set of All-American.

Whew child.. trying to work towards goals. And they just might work..

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Note: I tried to embed the Instagram post here, but it wouldn’t work. Maybe there’s a squarespace glitch with embedding Instagram posts, or maybe I’m not doing something right.. my devices and accounts being set to French (when I’m not yet fluent in French) probably doesn’t help 🙃

Broken and Whole At Once: Putting Together the Pieces Along My New Journey

My heavens Lord, it’s been quite the week!

I’m finding myself, now more than usual, to be halves, and wholes, and parts of various in-betweens.

There’s a few work-related blog posts I’d like to bring to you all, but I’m about to run out of my house to go have free sushi with an old co-worker from my Beverly Hills luxury retail days.

Let me organize my thoughts aloud to know what we’ll get into when I get back to this desk.

1. What does it look like to begin a career as an entertainment professional?

   • inspired by my close girlfriend from back home (Louisiana), Taylor, that asked me about my first week of work

2. What is the entertainment professionals’ workers’ union, SAG-AFTRA?

   • inspired by my own mind wondering if this group (with a 3-THOUSAND-DOLLAR initiation fee) that I hear people talking about all day, every day, on sets is worth it or a scam

3. How to join SAG-AFTRA?

   • it takes some people 5-10 years to be eligible to join SAG-AFTRA!

   • where am I along this entertainment career journey, only a week in?

4. Why I sat on the edge of my bed crying big crocodile tears Tuesday evening?

   • child, I hadn’t cried like that since my cousin, TaFoya, passed away at the tender age of 35 last year

Oh em gee, it’s 1pm and I’m already supposed to be at my girl’s place to head to her new job with her for an event where there’s going to be free sushi. My hair is a mess from the way it has been styled for the production I’ve been working on this past week, and I don’t even know what I’m about to throw on my body. Baby, let me go.

This is a personal blog, journal entries of my journey, if you will. So don’t let the wording of these questions/topics fool you, ain’t no straight textbook answers on the way… Folks can go to SAG-AFTRA’s website for that. My blog posts, answering these questions, will be from the perspective of the journey I’m on.. and hopefully, sharing will help the next girl on hers, whether it be for a career in entertainment or elsewhere!

Okay, pressing publish… I don’t think she expected me to be on time anyway.

First Day Working On Set As a Background Actor

Wardrobe. Hair. Makeup. Food.

A girl could get used to this set life.

Sitting in my queen-sized bed, reflecting on the time passed since getting out of this here bed before 4 o’clock this morning. Whew! Yes, I was up well before the chickens this morning, baby. And to say I worked an event (server) gig yesterday, which left me with much less than the recommended amount of sleep, I’m not having too much trouble keeping my eyes open to write this blog post at nearly 11 o’clock at night.

Lacking on rest, I thought I was going to be dog tired on set for a 5am call time, but something had me wired and I don’t think it was the coffee from craft services.

Maybe it was the newness, maybe it was the curiosity, maybe it was the excitement caused by newness and curiosity.

Related: Landing My First Background Acting Job

First of all, I didn’t go in with high expectations because working in the flexible food service industry of Los Angeles, majority of people I work with on any given shift are actors and I’d overheard them down-talking background work before. Every “actor” I’ve met in L.A. has, or has had, another job they do that actually pays the bills. When you’re an actor, chances are you’re a something-else that chooses to pour your resources into dreams of acting. It’s not paying you; you’re paying it. At least, at first (…or eternally). Anyway, this being the case, a great deal of actors in L.A. have “survival jobs”.

Related: 6 Side Hustles for Actors (YouTube video by Tyra the Creative)

If you’re an actor in L.A., why not do background acting as a survival job?

It makes sense, right? You get to be around the field you so-say love, you’re in the loop, you’re right there ‘round the folks you want to be ‘round. Why shouldn’t you do background acting as a survival job when you’re pursuing an acting career in L.A.?

Actors I’ve met would rather collect dirty glassware and change trash liners than go sit pretty on set as a background actor.

Some say it’s a faux pas to do background acting work if you have goals of being a principle actor. Once upon a time, they say, agents would even tell you not to accept background work. Though it’s still possible to get stuck there, which was one of the primary reasons to stay away from background acting, the tide seems to be shifting in more recent years. Agents don’t necessarily mind background work on a resume, as they’ve decided to look at the positive: you’ve been on set!

Even though doing background work isn’t frowned upon by the powers that be anymore (or as much?), some actors still don’t want to accept background work.

Related: Getting Into A Different Type of Gig

Okay, I’m getting off topic, maybe I am tired. The whole reason I brought all of that up is to say that I’ve heard actors on my event (serving) gigs say they wouldn't dare accept anymore background acting work because background actors are treated like cattle on set.

Background acting has a bad rap amongst some in the acting community, but what those folks experienced was not my experience today.

Whew child, these eyes are getting heavier now. Let me wrap this up, I suppose the quickest way I know how, chronologically.

Here’s how my first day as a background actress went.

I clicked the address provided in the email sent the day before shoot day and it brought me directly where I needed to go. Upon pulling into the parking lot right before 5am, there were men with flashlights smoothly directing parking. As soon as I parked and got out of the car, I could see shuttle buses and when I walked towards one, someone said, “background?”, to which I responded “yes,” and he pointed me towards my shuttle. A person outside of the shuttle door handed me a mask and I boarded.

Simple. Direct. Easy. No fuss.

This is already better than all the confusion trying to get to event gigs. Click the address you’re given, wrong location. Get to the right location, no parking. Arrive on site, no one knows why you’re here nor which direction you should go.

Moving along.

Shuttle brings us to set and we’re guided step-by-step. Check-in here. Okay, perf, Covid test (again) here. Let’s go down and pick up your wardrobe. This way for makeup. Okay, you’re done with makeup? Great, come this way for hair. You look absolutely amazing, wow, fantastic. You’re good to go. Walk with me this way. Let's pick you up some breakfast.

Me: Excuse me while I pick up eight french vanilla creamers, peel back the lid to each and pour them in my coffee cup.

Related: independent, locally-owned coffee shops #aroundLA

You're fine, take your time. Okay, we’ll have you here for holding and will come get you when you’re needed on set.

What?! That’s the type of organization I liiiiiiiiiiiike!

My entire day on set as a background actress for the first time was a well-oiled machine filled with polite people working it.

Okay, I need to go to sleep. I told myself I’m going for at least an hour-long bike ride in the morning and need to get this little skin indoors by 9am before the sun starts acting a fool. Ten hours in direct, blazing sunlight was enough to last me a while, honey! My goodness, I feel the upper portion of my arms tingle as I type this. I hope my Black behind isn’t sunburned.

The remainder of the day continued to flow as it began, pleasantly. Other than the paranoia of UV rays cooking up some aging, melanoma-ridden skin cells, I didn’t have any issues.

In between takes later in the afternoon, a group of us background folks were chatting and someone said, “this is nice, it’s a relaxing set.” Having to co-sign that, I said how it’s been such a pleasant experience that I’ll have to pick up more of these background gigs and less of my event (server) gigs. Everyone pretty much agreed, one girl saying how she’s down to only bartending once a week and the rest is acting work. Then here comes Debbie Downer, “well, you got really lucky for your first one. Trust me, they’re not all like this!”

Guess I’ll have to find out! 🙂

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Thank you for being here, riders.

Landing My First Background Acting Role

As insignificant as this is, I’m screaming.

AHHHHHHHH!

I’m on a major motion picture studio lot right now, and it’s not because I was hired to cater an event, as usually is the case when I’m at these famous Hollywood locations.

Back in April, I blogged about how one of my closest girlfriends out here in L.A., Shirley, slipped me into a slot for Central Casting on-boarding. She knows I don’t make any money blogging yet, and that I have a very flexible schedule with the type of work I do do to pay the rent, so she’d been swearing that if I get into background acting work, I could do well because ethnic is in. (She’s Asian with a pinch of Black and had had consistent work since signing up herself).

Since joining the roster of Hollywood’s biggest background casting company, I’d click “available” when possible work opportunities would appear in my inbox, but I’d never actively go out and search for roles. Shirley, being a full-time background actress, is in balls deep, always scouring the web for roles she could fill. Being the way-too-nice and thoughtful friend that she is, whenever she’d see somebody looking for a Black woman, she’d immediately send it to me. And when I say immediately, I mean immediately, before her eyes could even look across the entire description. A couple of times I had to say, “Shirley, do you really think I can pass for a woman in her 60s?” Majority of the time though, she wasn’t calling me an old lady and sent me jobs I could submit for.

“MODEL TYPES FOR MAJOR SHOW
** seeking women in their 20s **”

That’s what the Instagram post read across the top.

Shirley can be generous with compliments, even when they’re not necessarily true, and I know this, but I don’t mind listening to lies when I like them, so even though I don’t see myself as a “model type”, I let her convince me to go for it.

How did I book a role as a background actor for a major television network show in Los Angeles?

I submitted the headshot you see up above as this blog’s graphic and a picture of me in a swimsuit when I was in Jamaica, as well as body measurements I pulled out of my behind, and hoped for the best. That was August 13th.

A little over a week after submitting for the job, I received an email saying that I was under consideration. They asked me to send a current picture of myself. I figured they didn’t want anything special and were only trying to see what color my hair currently is or something, so I sent a selfie I’d taken on my phone in my bathroom a few days prior.

Another week went by and I’d let the idea leave my mind, like the many other roles Shirley sent me that I submitted for and never landed.

I was out-of-town for my very first content creator contract (yes, I recently had another somewhat insignificant, yet scream-worthy-to-me, first/accomplishment.. let me find out God is tryna tell me something)… I went to check my email, probably to confirm that night’s flight time, and saw an email from the casting team that was looking for model types!

I almost wouldn’t have been able to accept the job… BUT GOD!

Initially, I was planning to ride the train back to L.A. because it gives me time to endlessly stare out of a window while I tell myself I’m writing, but my digestive system was acting a plum fool. Not wanting to chance it on a 70-plus-hour journey, at the very last minute, I booked a same-day flight into LAX. I saw the email saying I was selected for the background role after deciding to go by plane instead of train. If my stomach wouldn’t have been upset and I would’ve kept my original travel plans, I wouldn’t have made it back to L.A. in time for the mandatory COVID testing and costume fitting yesterday and today.

What is it like on a major motion pictures studio lot in Los Angeles?

As I briefly mentioned, my work that pays the bills has brought me on every major motion picture studio lot in Los Angeles, including:

• Universal Studios Lot in Universal City

• Fox Studios Lot in Century City (this is where I cater-waiter the exclusive Night Before the Oscars official Academy pre-party for all of Hollywood’s hottest celebs)

• Sony Pictures Entertainment in Culver City (last time I was here was to serve Jon & Vinny’s pizza to Jennifer Anniston and crew for whatever she had going on)

• Warner Bros. Studios in Burbank

• Paramount Pictures Studios in the Larchmont area of Los Angeles (I’ve passed hors d’oeuvres here on plenty of occasions for film premieres, as I always accept these jobs since it’s so close to my house)

Yes, studio lots are a cool place, no matter you’re reason for being on one. They’re fantastical and imaginative. It makes your eyes bulge to be in one time period one second and another the next. You’re walking out of a normal 21st century parking garage, then you hit a corner and blink and you’re in the Wild Wild West. It’s also revealing, giving you those moments of “ohhhhhh,” when you see how a certain setting you’ve always seen on a screen is achieved. Though I’ve never been interested in paying for one, I can see why tourists from all around the world pay to go on studio lot tours.

Being behind-the-scenes of a film production is cool in and of itself; having an opportunity to be a part of the magic on a studio lot is the even cooler part that has me excited. | photo: Universal Studios Hollywood

Though all the coolness isn’t lost from me having worked private events on studio lots, the environment itself isn’t the reason why I was giddy today. My excitement is caused by the reason why I’m here today.

Today is my first time being on a major Hollywood studio lot as talent.

What?! I’m coming to a filming production location and I’m not here to serve food and drinks?!

It feels good, as I expected it would when I talked about Getting Into A Different Type of Gig.

Will I be on television after getting a background acting role?

I’m not sure.

Y’all, it’s only a very minor background role. If I make it on-screen, you’ll likely have to squint your eyes and look past the focus of the camera’s subject into the background to see me. And notice I said, if.

Today was only a wardrobe fitting. The scene I’m selected for could be cut before it’s even shot. (The one time I got booked a job thru Central Casting, that’s what happened to me; I didn’t even get to go in for a fitting). I could make it to shoot day and a camera never even turns my way. Or, I could make it to shoot day, get on camera, then be left on the editing room floor during post-production.

It’s really too soon to speak on.

I typically don’t like discussing opportunities until they’ve happened, which is what I did with my first content creator contract this past weekend, and my best-guy-friend got pissed that he didn’t know about it until I was in the mist of shooting the content.

Even though I don’t like talking about things until I’m sure, and me appearing on a major television network show isn’t a sure thing just yet, I am sure about one thing.

I’m sure this is a part of the process.

I am sharing this with you, my aroundLAwithTK riders (my blog readers), because

1. I am excited about a step, as small as it may be, in the right direction.

2. I need to post on my personal blog daily if I ever want it to pay me.

3. It’s an insightful, honest, often untold part of the process that may help the next girl that’s wondering.

We don’t see the almost’s, the whoopsy daisy’s, the darn’s, the trial and error’s. We see the made it’s, the there’s, the arrived’s.

I’m willing to share my climb, not from a pinnacle of success speaking from a selective memory of how I got to it. I’m willing to share my climb as I climb. It’s vulnerable and it opens myself up to criticism, but that’s what I need. I need to be more vulnerable. I need to allow the process to construct me into something better.

Tear me apart. I can handle that. What I can’t handle is looking up years later and not having gone for it, not throwing myself in, not giving myself to something to see what happens.

Writing helps me sort my thoughts. I believe it was a TED Radio Hour episode I was listening to recently where I heard a writer say, “I don’t know what I [feel] until I write it,” and I felt that! So, I’m here.. writing, sorting, and feeling.

And you’re here… reading.. maybe striking up thoughts within your own mind.. maybe even feeling. Whatever you’re doing, I’m glad you’re here. Thank you.

Please, don’t hesitate to share. If this spoke to you in any way, it may speak to someone else.

Getting Into A Different Type of Gig

Nearing the end of a side hustle event gig yesterday evening, as I slowed down enough to feel my body beginning to ache, I hopped on my InstaStory ranting about how I’m pretty much over it.

I’ve enjoyed working high end events aroundLA, but enough is enough.

People from back home, down South, and elsewhere, even some here in L.A., find what I call my “side hustle” to pay the rent, very interesting. They want to know who was there and what were they like. They want to know what it's like to be in those exclusive spaces. And, they want to know how they can get there.

Tend to the buffet at Piccadilly, or tend to the buffet at Will Smith’s Calabasas compound?

I can understand how the latter inspires a little more inquiry.

Never wanting to seem ungrateful, I added the disclaimer on my InstaStory that I am thankful for being able to have and do these more rare ways of making money for as long as I have.

Now, it’s been long enough. I’m ready to use the other 90% of my being with which God blessed me.

Being a woman of my word, I’ll give y’all a blog post, and/or maybe even a YouTube video, on side hustles in Los Angeles… eventually. (Get on my tail and eventually will come sooner than later.)

At this very moment though, I don’t want to think about those social event side hustle gigs. I want to think about something new, what’s next.

(If it isn’t obvious, I’ll still be working them for the time being, because baby, one thing about these bills, they gon’ come, and I’m gon’ make SHO they paid, one way or zhee otha!)

Background acting is what’s next.

I started typing this sitting in the onboarding office of Central Casting’s Los Angeles location.

Do I plan to, or have a desire to, make a career out of background acting?

Not at chance.

First of all, it’s not enough money in exchange for my time.

Let me give you an example.

A month or so ago, I worked a 2-day event for the luxury designer brand Prada. Prada transformed the long-standing Ghengis Khan restaurant on Fairfax into an immersive art experience, featuring a panel one second and a nightclub vibe the next. I was responsible for tending to a lounge of VIP guests, and I worked my a** off because they didn’t hire enough servers. (Yet, Prada hired a slew of white girls to stand around wearing a Prada uniform shirt-dress, doing nothing.. no exaggeration.. nothing. I asked them, the “brand ambassadors,” what they had to do and they specifically said, “just stand here…” for $30/hour!! I immediately applied for that event staffing agency, am now on their roster, and am scheduled to work a $40/hr gig I booked thru them to kickoff Coachella this Friday. Moving along..)

Prada Mode Los Angeles got that work out of me, you hear?! But, I made a thousand bucks in two days.

Would I be foolish enough to think I’ll make $1,000 for 2 days on set as a background actor? I’d be setting myself up for disappointment if I did.

Background acting is only a lucrative industry for the entity employing the background actors, in this case, Central Casting. From every case I’ve heard, and from the numbers I saw on the paperwork I signed at onboarding today, background acting gigs aren’t paying anywhere near the amount of money good event gigs pay.

How much do background actors in Los Angeles get paid?

When you begin working as a background actor in Los Angeles, the pay rate is minimum wage. Who can survive off of minimum wage in Los Angeles? Sure in tf not Te’Keya Krystal!

Note: I didn’t look this information up on Google about the pay rate for background actors in Los Angeles; I’m telling you what I know from personal experience, as this is a personal lifestyle blog. There may be other entities out there that pay more, I’m not sure; I’m sharing what I know thus far from friends in the industry, and from myself joining the first and most popular major casting network in Los Angeles, or whatever that video playing at onboarding said today.

If these new gigs won’t pay more than your previous gigs, why do background acting?

Networking!

Experience.

Though I won’t make enough money to feed myself with background acting work (or I’ll make enough money to feed myself, but won’t have time to eat), it will put me closer to the entertainment industry.

In college, I studied broadcast journalism and minored in performing arts. I’ve always wanted to be in the field of entertainment. Then I moved to Los Angeles without much planning or preparation, got distracted with making money to make ends meet, and never pursued my passions. That changes now.

Pride is The Devil

all my pride gone
had to lose it all, then I got rich

- Lil’ Baby on J.Cole’s Pride Is The Devil

Okay, I have to take a pay cut, but is a temporary modification not worth long term gratification?

I’ve decided to take the chance of making sacrifices now, to worry a little bit less about the now, to benefit myself on a deeper level in the future.

Once you’re exposed to certain levels, it’s difficult to accept less. No one ever wants to feel as though they’re going backwards. We all want to be on an upward trend in life. However, I’d be remiss if I counted my growth in only dollars. I wouldn’t want to let “oh, uhnt uhn, I’d make triple this doing thus and such” hinder potential growth in other areas. (Shoot, if that’s the methodology, instead of serving drinks, I could make a thousand times more serving blow jobs. I giggle, but it’s true; I told y’all over on the LA opinion column how gold diggers, damn near prostitutes, really exist aroundLA.. and live well!)

“Money is the motive” is a popular adage, but I don’t want money to be the motive for me. Money being thee only, or the deciding, factor in matters, ignoring morals or passions, is where all sorts of other problems begin.

I want to let my heart drive me, not my bank account. And I don’t want to let my pride interfere.

At Central Casting onboarding, potential background actors are required to take a headshot and full body for their CentralCasting.com account.

So, here I am.

In addition to not making any money, I’ll also have to get over not liking the way I look on-camera, if I plan to make money doing on-camera work. I’m posting this very imperfect, completely raw (unedited), image of myself, even though I strongly dislike it, to force myself to get over it. It’s the mandatory photo taken at Central Casting onboarding, and it’ll remain on my Central Casting profile that (hopefully) hundreds of casting directors will click on.

To be continued

This isn’t the end all, be all. As previously stated, I do not plan to make a career out of background acting in Los Angeles. I also don’t expect the exposure and experience, gained background acting, to be a sure way into something I would like to do long term.

I’m simply opening myself up to possibilities by trying something new.

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Special thanks to one of my former luxury retail co-workers, now close girlfriend, Shirley Chung, for not only suggesting I sign up for Central Casting Los Angeles, but also scoring me one of their extremely-swiftly-filling time slots for onboarding.

If you all would like to know about the onboarding process for Central Casting, comment on this blog post or on the @aroundLAwithTK Instagram account. If I start getting booked on gigs, and you want me to do a follow-up post, along the lines of “how is it to do background acting in Los Angeles,” let me know that as well!

What's the Difference with *Working* Woman Crush Wednesdays?

I enjoy looking at women of above average physical attraction as much as the next lesbian-behaving-but-not-actually-lesbian woman, however, outward beauty alone doesn’t impress me. It’s easy to be nothing but a pretty face with a warm hole, and in Los Angeles, it’s not hard to get ahead with those two attributes.

The women I crush on are more. They’re actresses in L.A., landing auditions and roles without doing off-camera action on the casting couch. They’re girls making a name for themselves with their own projects, not off their romantic tethers to a man. They’re women that clock in Monday thru Friday, climbing their way up the corporate ladder.

On this lifestyle blog, #WomanCrushWednesdays, girls that I like to highlight, are the antithesis of the stereotypical, shallow LA girl. My girls have depth, and are pursuing their passions while maintaining their morals in this very tricky city that is Los Angeles.

Working Crush Wednesday: Meet Alasia, A Clothing Shop Owner Turned Corporate Girl

In the first woman crush Wednesday feature, I introduced you to what this blog series is about, but there’s something I’d like to reiterate… These are girls in Los Angeles that I know personally. That’s what’s different about this blog series versus what you may find in other publications — often times something doctored up by a public relations specialist — with pieces on people the writer doesn’t know at all, they’re just trying to fill a content slot or meet a deadline. In media, people can paint whatever picture they’d like to paint for whatever purpose. This. Ain’t. That.

These are girls I’ve witnessed with my own two eyes, living here in Los Angeles. These are plain ol’ real stories from real women working towards their goals in Los Angeles. And I’m only going to put it up here if I know, what do y’all cool kids say these days…

There’s no cap in her rap.

I met today’s feature, Alasia Allen, some years ago when I was working at Neiman Marcus in Beverly Hills. Her little cute as a button self stood out to me and I watched her go from working jobs, to quitting and solely focusing on her own small online clothing store, to now having a role at a major clothing company based in Los Angeles.

Meet Lai!

Where are you originally from?

Brandywine, MD

What's an aspect of Los Angeles you love, that you can't get back home?

Definitely the weather and beautiful beaches!

What motivated you to open your own online clothing store?

I’ve always liked designing and creating my wardrobe so I was inspired to make my own line. Back then I also didn’t think I could get hired anywhere, so I created my own sh*t.

With so many shops on the Internet, what did you do to set your brand apart?

I created the TOMBOY line which people loved. It was something I hadn’t seen before and it was fun to do. Innovation is the best way to set yourself apart.

How would you rate the success of the run of your business?

an original Shalai design by Alasia Allen featured on model in digital run of Vogue Arabia | photo: @voguearabia on Instagram

Shalai is not where I would like it to be but it did really well when I was giving it my full attention. Over the years I’ve discovered new interests and set new goals so Shalai has now become more of a passion project. I drop whenever I feel like it.

Now you've taken a shift. Was it difficult to pull away from the business you built?

Yes, definitely. I had people asking where’s TOMBOY and when I’d be dropping again. Naturally that made me feel pressured to keep putting things out even if I wasn’t fully into it. Now I just don’t. TOMBOY was fun and represented a specific time in my life creatively…but I stopped enjoying it. The thing is, I’ve been designing this whole time (and haven’t stopped) just not for my brand. I’ve been doing design for other brands behind the scenes. I’ll always be a creative…I just need to discover what I want to create for myself. Maybe its a new brand, maybe it’s revamping Shalai.

Where are you now and what's your role?

I’m the PR & Talent Relations Manager for Revolve / FWRD. I manage press initiatives, and celebrity/talent partnerships, while contributing to the voice of the brand.

What do you appreciate most about the company you work for and/or your position?

I’ve only been with the company for a few weeks but I’d say that I love the fashion and events aspect. I’m excited to work on upcoming big projects.

Alasia Allen is a PR & Talent Relations Manager for Revolve / FWRD | photo: LinkedIn

How is your life different now that you've stepped away from Shalai Studios and into Revolve / FWRD?

It’s very different! When I was running my own business it was a lot of stress and heavy on my mental health. I know that’s what comes with it, but I think we put this weird pressure on being independent and owning our own businesses. There’s other ways of ownership. There’s also the assumption that when you’re an entrepreneur, you have more freedom than a “9-5”, but in reality you’re working 24/7 — especially when you’re building the business (which takes years). Social media makes people think everyone has everything and it’s not true. We are only showing our wins. Honestly, when I was the most active / poppin’ on social media is when I was the brokest. I’m in the best position financially now than I’ve ever been, and still going up!

If any, what are your regrets about changing fields?

None at all. I believe my steps are ordered through God and everything in my path is meant to be. I’ve made so many connections that can carry over into when I do my own thing. Like I said, I’m not done with design or creative projects, I’m just taking a different route.

We learn a lot from our parents, mentors, school, and even our peers, but other people can’t teach us everything. What is one lesson you’ve learned, or trait you’ve acquired, that being in the corporate world has taught you?

Relationships are VERY important. Mentorship is key. I’m always letting people senior to me know that I want to learn from them. More opportunities have resulted from that. I think people always feel like they know everything and have all the answers. It’s okay to learn!!!

What do you have planned, or see in your future, as a career woman or businesswoman?

It’s giving executive! The reason I haven’t kept up with Shalai is not because I didn’t see the potential in it. It’s because I realized that I don’t want to run my own business. I’d rather be creative director, or VP of marketing / PR for another company that’s already established. That’s the goal.

You may bump into Alasia being her ever-so-edgy self somewhere aroundLA, like shopping at an upscale streetwear store on Sunset Blvd. | photo: @alasiashalai on Instagram

And because this is a Los Angeles lifestyle blog after all, here’s an #aroundLA bonus question for kicks and giggles.

You're an edgy fashion girl. What is your go-to place to shop in L.A.?

When it’s not Santee Alley for a quick look for a trip or going out?? I’d say Dover Street Market or Kith.

Alasia’s story is a testament to the fact that it’s okay to change in your career journey. Taking a step away from something doesn’t mean you’ve failed.

Find Alasia on Instagram at “alasiashalai”.

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